Your guide to pronouns Pronouns are a part of everyday language - a lot of the time we use them without thinking! Pronouns are a way of referring to someone without using their name. (See how we just used 'their'?) However, it's also an important part of someone's gender identity that should be respected and celebrated. Using the wrong pronouns can be harmful and upsetting. Read our guide below on how to use pronouns and make them a part of your everyday routine. If you're struggling at home because of your gender identity, or facing homelessness, we're here for you. need support? donate news